everyone will be happy if everybody around them love him/her. so this is some thips that u can use to make them love u.
`Have an open, loving attitude
If you want to be loved, love everyone. Be nice, gentle and friendly toward everyone. No one can find fault with the kindest person. 'Espoir Smart English through Love & Romance' is a fantastic guide to develop an attitude towards compassion & inter-personal skills. Speak in a gracious way. Be respectful to all.
`Do the basics
Personal hygiene. Dress appropriately. If you respect yourself and take pride, people will notice. Having confidence is the easiest way to draw people to you, yet it is one of the hardest things to have.
~Speak up!
Live by your morales and ideals. Do what you say. Always be learning.
~Smile, and be approachable
Be full of compassion.
~Surround yourself with what makes you happy
Consider your body a sponge absorbing everything around you. You can only have so much happiness before you will start to give it off to those around you. Same with anger, sadness, jealousy. It is a way to keep our emotions balanced.
~Have time
The greatest thing you can give is your time and energy.
~Notice your thoughts as they happen
Half of what we say is through our bodies, which begins by what we are thinking.
~Never lie to someone
people hate if someone lie to them so DON'T lie.
~Always smile everywhere you go
people like to see a smile face that makes them forget some of their problem. so if they have a friend that like to smile they will love to be around with you.
Saturday, December 25, 2010
Sunday, December 19, 2010
How To Be A better Person
Life can be difficult. People are always looking for an influence, someone to look up to, someone to emulate. You can set the example, be the motivation that can really impact another human being. You can help change the world by changing yourself. Change must come from within, so become an example.
~Decide what it is that you consider a 'good' person to be
You can do this by observing people you love or respect. Realizing their best qualities and admirable traits and implementing this upon your own personality.
~Befriend people who you consider a good influence, but don't expect them to be saints
They may make mistakes because they don't realize they have the virtues you see in them. Never give up.
~Remember, that life goals can change, and whom you are can change as well
Never fail to re-evaluate and rediscover yourself
~Do not be selfish If there is someone that works or lives near you that seems devoid of a friend, reach out and help them
It is incredible the difference one person can make if they become someone's friend. Give personal time, give advice or catch a movie!
~Read
Spend a good amount of your time reading about something beneficial towards your intelligence and keep updated about society. People admire smart peers, and being well-educated means that you will be able to stick up for what you believe in by using fact! A good debate always challenges human intelligence and builds pride.
Live life to the fullest!
Try out for that school sport. Volunteer at the soup kitchen. Write in your journal/diary. Join the annual bake sale, or take your sibling to the carnival. Fill your life to the brim with rewarding activities and enjoy the blessings that come of them.
~Boost your intelligence
The ability to perform mental tasks with ease is invaluable; taking simple steps in your daily life will help you to cultivate your brain power. Practice your cognitive mind by exercising your thinking patterns. Which means challenge your mind in a way that expands thinking beyond what this universe can even offer!
~Finish college
If you haven't gone yet, make a plan to do so. There are so many opportunities that you are missing out on if you refrain from getting a formal education. Job opportunities will be opened up, you will gain respect from colleagues, along with the bonus asset that you become more intelligent. It is never too late to go to school. Stop making excuses! There are many grants available, and schedules can be flexible.
~Spend time with your family
It is truly a learning experience to all of you. Spending quality time away from the T.V. can help you delve into the minds and hearts of your loved ones, allowing you to help them with any problems they may be experiencing and getting to genuinely know them. Studies have shown that children that eat dinner as a family are less likely to do drugs, alcohol, or be depressed. Just fifteen minutes a day with family can deeply help everyone involved.
~Think before you speak A good listener tends to be a good person, and trust from others will follow
When you have the power of someones trust, do not take it for granted. Use this trust, to help people better themselves.
~Stay active
Being healthy and fit allows you to perform more tasks with ease and precision. Just thirty minutes of activity a day can help you lead a healthier, longer, more fruitful life. So what are you waiting for? You'd be amazed at how much body and mind are connected.
~Grow towards love everyday- We all have to live in this world together for at least a small amount of time and we are all here on purpose to learn the lessons of our actions
The way we can love is by being receptive,unselfish,respectful,sacrificial,willing,thoughtful,having patience and being thankful. There is wisdom in all things, and all are capable of tapping the experience of pure natural and whole being. THIS LIFE IS FOR LOVE. This simple truth which begins with gratitude, forgiveness and loving awareness is for us to see our imperfections and our potential perfection. None of us are perfect. If something seems to perfect, there is something wrong! Life also consists of balance.
~Donate time & love yourself to selfless love
When you give your body, mind, and strength to the loving force which is within us all and provides us with all we need. When we strike out to attack others we hurt ourselves. We get what we put out...
~Love what you do!
Do what you love- If we can finally admit that we are in need of something to fill the void in our life that eats at us every moment. Do not think that loving a partner,even a distant friend will make you become suddenly happy. Satisfaction is only obtained through the knowledge of realization that only a true passion that will return to you its rewards, and then will satisfy your void and human thirst for fulfillment. Love something, that will give back and that you will not have expectations for! Be in control.
~Focus your mind on something positive
High motives and noble thoughts can be transferred into actions where we become aware of healing and helping all people because we are all brothers and sisters and deserve love no matter what the past or present or future. We give selfless love to all people in all times and all situations which may arise.
~Pick up your dreams Give your dreams another look
Dream again with deep determination. Remain self consciously aware throughout your day. Just remain conscious even of anger in your mind and body. Your mind creates your body. Get a hold of yourself and don't be distracted by the outside forces of life. With selfless awareness you can create a positive mind which unfolds positively effortlessly. Everyday should be the best day of your life. Give fully and receive fully into yourself.
~Give quiet understanding Love is the only cure to what ails you
We can enjoy company when we eat or pray or live and dream and grow together. All that you do should be for the benefit of all. Give fully of yourself to all in all energy of life for ALL times all of your forces are made of diverse energy. You must guide your energy consciously and make your mind unemotional and solid. It is not a restriction, it is a guidance.
~Don't force others into things you do
This involves religion, work, beliefs, culture, etc. Most people are happy with who they are, and won't necessarily respond positively to shoving
~Decide what it is making you feel you're a bad person
Everybody's different and you can't be somebody else. Accept that you are you and follow your heart. What you feel may be right, is probably right for you. You're yourself and everybody will just have to accept that.
~Always think that helping others helps you
Act as though someone is watching you, feeling good inside and be satisfied with whom you've become.
source :
Be a Better Person
~Decide what it is that you consider a 'good' person to be
You can do this by observing people you love or respect. Realizing their best qualities and admirable traits and implementing this upon your own personality.
~Befriend people who you consider a good influence, but don't expect them to be saints
They may make mistakes because they don't realize they have the virtues you see in them. Never give up.
~Remember, that life goals can change, and whom you are can change as well
Never fail to re-evaluate and rediscover yourself
~Do not be selfish If there is someone that works or lives near you that seems devoid of a friend, reach out and help them
It is incredible the difference one person can make if they become someone's friend. Give personal time, give advice or catch a movie!
~Read
Spend a good amount of your time reading about something beneficial towards your intelligence and keep updated about society. People admire smart peers, and being well-educated means that you will be able to stick up for what you believe in by using fact! A good debate always challenges human intelligence and builds pride.
Live life to the fullest!
Try out for that school sport. Volunteer at the soup kitchen. Write in your journal/diary. Join the annual bake sale, or take your sibling to the carnival. Fill your life to the brim with rewarding activities and enjoy the blessings that come of them.
~Boost your intelligence
The ability to perform mental tasks with ease is invaluable; taking simple steps in your daily life will help you to cultivate your brain power. Practice your cognitive mind by exercising your thinking patterns. Which means challenge your mind in a way that expands thinking beyond what this universe can even offer!
~Finish college
If you haven't gone yet, make a plan to do so. There are so many opportunities that you are missing out on if you refrain from getting a formal education. Job opportunities will be opened up, you will gain respect from colleagues, along with the bonus asset that you become more intelligent. It is never too late to go to school. Stop making excuses! There are many grants available, and schedules can be flexible.
~Spend time with your family
It is truly a learning experience to all of you. Spending quality time away from the T.V. can help you delve into the minds and hearts of your loved ones, allowing you to help them with any problems they may be experiencing and getting to genuinely know them. Studies have shown that children that eat dinner as a family are less likely to do drugs, alcohol, or be depressed. Just fifteen minutes a day with family can deeply help everyone involved.
~Think before you speak A good listener tends to be a good person, and trust from others will follow
When you have the power of someones trust, do not take it for granted. Use this trust, to help people better themselves.
~Stay active
Being healthy and fit allows you to perform more tasks with ease and precision. Just thirty minutes of activity a day can help you lead a healthier, longer, more fruitful life. So what are you waiting for? You'd be amazed at how much body and mind are connected.
~Grow towards love everyday- We all have to live in this world together for at least a small amount of time and we are all here on purpose to learn the lessons of our actions
The way we can love is by being receptive,unselfish,respectful,sacrificial,willing,thoughtful,having patience and being thankful. There is wisdom in all things, and all are capable of tapping the experience of pure natural and whole being. THIS LIFE IS FOR LOVE. This simple truth which begins with gratitude, forgiveness and loving awareness is for us to see our imperfections and our potential perfection. None of us are perfect. If something seems to perfect, there is something wrong! Life also consists of balance.
~Donate time & love yourself to selfless love
When you give your body, mind, and strength to the loving force which is within us all and provides us with all we need. When we strike out to attack others we hurt ourselves. We get what we put out...
~Love what you do!
Do what you love- If we can finally admit that we are in need of something to fill the void in our life that eats at us every moment. Do not think that loving a partner,even a distant friend will make you become suddenly happy. Satisfaction is only obtained through the knowledge of realization that only a true passion that will return to you its rewards, and then will satisfy your void and human thirst for fulfillment. Love something, that will give back and that you will not have expectations for! Be in control.
~Focus your mind on something positive
High motives and noble thoughts can be transferred into actions where we become aware of healing and helping all people because we are all brothers and sisters and deserve love no matter what the past or present or future. We give selfless love to all people in all times and all situations which may arise.
~Pick up your dreams Give your dreams another look
Dream again with deep determination. Remain self consciously aware throughout your day. Just remain conscious even of anger in your mind and body. Your mind creates your body. Get a hold of yourself and don't be distracted by the outside forces of life. With selfless awareness you can create a positive mind which unfolds positively effortlessly. Everyday should be the best day of your life. Give fully and receive fully into yourself.
~Give quiet understanding Love is the only cure to what ails you
We can enjoy company when we eat or pray or live and dream and grow together. All that you do should be for the benefit of all. Give fully of yourself to all in all energy of life for ALL times all of your forces are made of diverse energy. You must guide your energy consciously and make your mind unemotional and solid. It is not a restriction, it is a guidance.
~Don't force others into things you do
This involves religion, work, beliefs, culture, etc. Most people are happy with who they are, and won't necessarily respond positively to shoving
~Decide what it is making you feel you're a bad person
Everybody's different and you can't be somebody else. Accept that you are you and follow your heart. What you feel may be right, is probably right for you. You're yourself and everybody will just have to accept that.
~Always think that helping others helps you
Act as though someone is watching you, feeling good inside and be satisfied with whom you've become.
source :
Be a Better Person
Saturday, December 18, 2010
Tip how to get over broken heart
Hai if you ever felt broken heart try this tips its work for me and i hope it's also work for you all. and if you have tips that can get over a broken heart post it here may be it can help our frends.
~ Try to make it the reason to grow more higher.
It’s a good idea to make broken heart as a motivation to grow up and catch more success. Those bad experience should teach you something about life. So, broken heart can make you more wise as a person. You can see life more realistic than before, not just an empty dreams you are thinking about. Sweet romance can blind us about the reality of life, that everything in this life can be gone easily without any notice at all. so, realizing that love can be gone someday will drive us to the maximum level of life we can reach. We will grow more success personally and professionally. That’s the right attitude we can use to avoid broken heart destroy our life and make it a stepping stone to our success.
~Keep yourself busy
Hanging at home will not help you at all. Do you like exercise? If yes then go to the gym, go out with your buddies, take a dance class, play with your cat or anything you enjoy.Simply focus on do anything that will get your mind thinking about something that is not your broken heart. If you feel anxious about going out, turn on the music that makes you shout "wow".
~Take time for yourself and try to look nice
Not because of that person, but for you and your soul. Focusing on yourself will help you put aside others. Go and get your favorite ice cream, sweet candies, but don't over do it.
~Get rid of any potential reminders
If you have things to give back, mail it,things you are going to keep hide in a box for now. You don't want instant reminders of your broken heart in your room, car, or at work. Storage the box somewhere out of your sight, and when you feel emotionally better, you can get back to it.
~broken heart is a test of our soul whether it is appropriate to receive true love or not
We can’t value something special just by look it with our eyes. Sometimes someone special is someone that we don’t care before. Broken heart maybe will drive us to someone who is the right person to us. Maybe with broken heart God will meet us with someone who is really love and care about us. So, don’t let broken heart close our clear mind. There is someone out there who is waiting for us.
source:
4 tips on how to get over a broken heart that work
Simple tips to avoid hurts from broken heart
~ Try to make it the reason to grow more higher.
It’s a good idea to make broken heart as a motivation to grow up and catch more success. Those bad experience should teach you something about life. So, broken heart can make you more wise as a person. You can see life more realistic than before, not just an empty dreams you are thinking about. Sweet romance can blind us about the reality of life, that everything in this life can be gone easily without any notice at all. so, realizing that love can be gone someday will drive us to the maximum level of life we can reach. We will grow more success personally and professionally. That’s the right attitude we can use to avoid broken heart destroy our life and make it a stepping stone to our success.
~Keep yourself busy
Hanging at home will not help you at all. Do you like exercise? If yes then go to the gym, go out with your buddies, take a dance class, play with your cat or anything you enjoy.Simply focus on do anything that will get your mind thinking about something that is not your broken heart. If you feel anxious about going out, turn on the music that makes you shout "wow".
~Take time for yourself and try to look nice
Not because of that person, but for you and your soul. Focusing on yourself will help you put aside others. Go and get your favorite ice cream, sweet candies, but don't over do it.
~Get rid of any potential reminders
If you have things to give back, mail it,things you are going to keep hide in a box for now. You don't want instant reminders of your broken heart in your room, car, or at work. Storage the box somewhere out of your sight, and when you feel emotionally better, you can get back to it.
~broken heart is a test of our soul whether it is appropriate to receive true love or not
We can’t value something special just by look it with our eyes. Sometimes someone special is someone that we don’t care before. Broken heart maybe will drive us to someone who is the right person to us. Maybe with broken heart God will meet us with someone who is really love and care about us. So, don’t let broken heart close our clear mind. There is someone out there who is waiting for us.
source:
4 tips on how to get over a broken heart that work
Simple tips to avoid hurts from broken heart
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